If the sexual energy remains locked in the human body and is not used anywhere, various problems can arise. You cease to feel harmony and balance, to accept your own body. And this is a signal that it is necessary to get rid of the accumulated tension. There are many ways to do it right. One of the most pleasant, effective and non-standard — erotic massage session. Beautiful girls will gladly help correct the situation. You will only have to lie down and have fun, and with it — benefits for the body and nervous system.
What is sexual tension?
Sexual tension is easy to recognize. This is a bright feeling, reminiscent of an electric current. It is these sensations that bring attraction to a partner, which is impossible to realize here and at the moment. For example, you feel aroused, but you are in a restaurant or any other public place. Usually such a "discharge" does not go unnoticed by others.
It is interesting that the mutual attraction and sexual tension of one person differ significantly. Sexologists describe this state as a strong energy that arises between people who experience mutual interest. If the person to whom this energy is directed does not give a response, it is just falling in love. You can't call it sexual tension.
Signs by which tension can be recognized
You can tell if there is tension between you by the following obvious signs:
- Prolonged eye contact. If it is set, people stare at each other for a long time, expressing interest, as if inviting to something.
- Constant physical contact without sexual overtones. For example, frequent touching, patting on the shoulder, straightening clothes. A person finds reasons to touch the object of interest. However, it maintains the appearance that this happens by chance. Such "random" touches help to understand how much his feelings are mutual.
- Erotic dreams and fantasies in which the object of adoration is the main role.
- The desire to spend more time in the company of a certain person. There is no sexual connotation. But there is a desire to feel the presence of a person nearby.
- Flirting, flirting. They can be either explicit or implicit. When one person or both change the pace of speech, the voice is in the presence of each other. The desire to make your partner laugh. In the presence of an object of adoration, you can smile more, feel uplifted, a desire to do something.
- A feeling of awkwardness can also indicate that the person is tense. A blush may appear from embarrassment.
- Physical proximity. When during a conversation people try to lean towards each other. Eliminate physical barriers between themselves: remove furniture, sit closer.
- Slight dizziness. The body becomes wadded, ceases to obey.
- The feeling that there is some secret between people that no one should know.
It is important that the listed signals come from both sides.
What threatens sexual tension without a release?
A strong desire to have sex that cannot be realized here and now — a great opportunity to enhance emotions, fantasies, sensations. However, there is a downside.
If for some reason sex between people is not possible, this can provoke negative situations. For example, when attraction arises to one of the family members, a colleague, or to someone with whom a relationship is considered unacceptable. Then the reaction can be reversed:
- the person is distracted from the current relationship, experiencing frustration and aggression towards the current partner;
- there is a desire to take revenge, offend a partner in a current relationship: a person begins to flirt with strangers without the consent of his other half;
- unresolved sexual tension leads to excessive aggression, dissatisfaction with one's position.
10 ways to relieve sexual tension
To prevent overexcitation from ruining your life, use one of the popular practices.
- Meditation
It helps to clear the mind, relieve tension. However, if you do not practice meditation practices, you need a suitable mentor. It will help to comprehend the basic principles that will allow you to process negative emotions. Practice helps to harmonize the physical, spiritual side of life.
- Work
Business people will confirm: a great way — head to work. When thoughts are occupied with solving complex problems, the feeling of dissatisfaction is dulled. Usually workaholics resort to it. Being strongly involved in the process, you can not only distract yourself from negative emotions, but also earn more money, move up the career ladder.
- Massage
A good way to relieve both muscle tension and emotional tension. The Chinese are sure that massage techniques help in the treatment of bones, muscles, digestive organs, respiration and the nervous system. Even a light massage at home has a positive effect.
- Webcam sex
For active Internet users, there are sites where it is easy to find a partner for sex online. There are also chat rooms where you can watch a luxurious show alone or in the company of other users. If the cause of the tension is a girl who is currently in another country, you can practice virtual intimacy. This will not only save the partner from abstinence, but also allow the couple to experiment, expand their sexual horizons.
- Hobby
If you have a hobby that you don't mind devoting your free time to, do it. It will free your head from obscene thoughts. If there is no hobby, you need to pick up something urgently. Think about what you would like or what works best. It's time to master the skill, to which the hands did not reach before. Now there are a large number of schools, master classes, workshops where you can replenish your skills base.
- Sports
Another universal remedy for tension and stress— sport. Physical activity brings no less satisfaction, because in the process of hard work, which brings pain and inconvenience, endorphins are produced. These are natural painkillers, thanks to which we experience special satisfaction after exercise. You can choose jogging, exercising in the gym, gymnastics, martial arts. Any sport will allow you to experience a feeling of lightness and strength, to release sexual energy. At the same time, you get a bonus in the form of a beautiful figure, health benefits.
- Dancing
One of the types of physical activity that helps to cope with excitement is dancing. When you start to get involved in the process, splashing out the accumulated energy, the dance becomes more sensual, passionate. Moving to the music, a woman feels divinely beautiful and desirable, and a man — real master. To better know your body, feel its sexuality, pole dancing, striptease and other solitary practices are suitable.
- Cold shower
The fastest way to get yourself back to normal. Cold water flowing down a hot body instantly relieves tension. Such a shake-up for the body can not be practiced by everyone. However, young and healthy people will benefit from it: the body will become fresh, it will tone up, thoughts will no longer be confused. Main — do not forget to rub yourself after cold water.
- Homework
Not as exciting as some of the previous options, but it works. Doing house chores helps to kill time with greater benefit. You still need to get your house in order. The advantage is that household chores never end.
- Masturbation
The problem of sudden sexual arousal is familiar to almost everyone. Men especially often face it. And this is a normal condition, which is explained by male physiology. One of the reasons for spontaneous excitement is the lack of physical intimacy for a long time. For boys and girls of young age — even for a short time. Hormones work more actively, sexual desire simply does not go away. Treatment is not required, however, it will not work to have sex all the time. For example, if at the moment you do not have a partner. You have to solve the issue yourself.
The natural process of stress relief — masturbation. When an orgasm is obtained, nervous stress is removed, anxiety recedes.
Important to know! There is another way to avoid neurosis: switch your attention to another activity. This is called sublimation.
If arousal gradually increases, and none of the above methods help, it's time to contact a specialist. Probably hypersexuality. It is not reduced by conventional methods. Drugs are used to treat it. If the symptoms can only be relieved for a while, you can check the level of testosterone or other hormones. Perhaps it is the increased production of hormones.
Benefits of erotic massage
Massage relieves tension well, but erotic massage works even better. At least because it is carried out by a beautiful naked girl, which you yourself choose on the salon's website. This means that you can choose a masseuse for your height, weight, hair color, breast size, as well as other external data.
When a luxurious naked girl glides over your body, not only the muscles relax. Blood circulation is maximized, the nervous system relaxes, and the general emotional state improves. It’s like you are doing a reboot, but you enter it with renewed vigor and incredible sensations. Along with this, body massage guarantees the correct discharge of sexual energy, which in itself brings undeniable benefits.
Erotic massage — it's not just good practice. It brings pleasure, relieves stress, allows you to relax and be filled with new forces. You experience not only tactile, but also visual pleasure, watching the smooth movements of a luxurious girlish body. You will quickly forget about the problems that await you behind the doors of the salon, forget everything you knew about massage and sexual pleasure. But this erotic experience will remain in your memory forever!
Come to the salons of the "EGOIST" network to relieve stress in time and get an incredible amount of pleasure. Our doors are open 24/7, and photos of masseuses, their parameters and work schedule can be found on the website. More than 45 programs are available to each of our guests, and loyalty programs make visits more profitable. We will help you relax and start a new day with a lot of energy!
