What turns you on doesn't always please your partner, and vice versa. This is a common situation. Studies in the field of sexology prove that arousal processes are triggered differently in men and women. Therefore, it is better to find out in advance what exactly will help ignite and maintain passion in bed.
What does a man like the most?
If we take the "basic" conductors of passion, then we will get 3 channels of excitement.
- Words
Everyone says that women love with their ears. However, the same goes for men. Use words to add spice to bed relationships.
You need to clearly understand what kind of expressions turn on a man: romantic or hotter. So you can learn more about his fantasies. Be sure to listen to what your partner says during intimacy. And you will understand in what way he sees you today: a gentle cat or an imperious mistress. A great way to improve mutual understanding.
- Body
The most powerful aphrodisiac for a man — female body. Lush or neat breasts that fit easily in the palm of your hand, a languishing look, lips and female genitals — this is not the whole list of what can excite a partner. Every man — your favorites list.
- Scents
It's no secret that every person has their own scent. These are pheromones. And if people do not match by smell, it will be impossible to keep in touch. There is no natural attraction.
A man is aroused not only by the smell of the body, but also by sexual associations from personal experience associated with the "best sex in life." For example, it can be the smell of hay if sex took place in the hayloft, or the smells of the sea associated with a night of love on the beach.
Perfumers offer aphrodisiacs and other fragrances, the trends for which change every season. This allows us to experiment, to complement the minutes of intimacy with new accents.
Unexpected things that make men lose their heads
Sexologists have conducted research and determined that 80% of men are excited when they see a girl in lace underwear. But there are not quite ordinary things that can provoke a surge of passion.
- Morning stretch
Men love peignoirs and stilettos, but they get just as excited when they see a "cozy" dress. girl: in pajamas, with disheveled hair and no makeup. And when she stretches sweetly in bed, it's even better than any striptease. Such a partner looks defenseless. And the man feels like she belongs to him entirely at this moment. There is nothing more beautiful than the feeling of complete possession.
- Angry
To this day, no one knows why men like angry women so much. However, this does not change the reality: being angry, you provoke the strongest excitement. Surely, each of you has heard the phrase “you are so beautiful when you are angry” in your life. And it seems as if a cornered man is trying to calm his lady of the heart. However, he really admires the process. And violent sex as a reconciliation — great option.
- Tousled hair
The same scheme works here as with sipping. The girl looks cozy, homely, her own. You can spend several hours styling, buying incredible hair dryers and curling irons, but the fact remains. Desire does not arise from perfect styling.
- No makeup
Scientists have calculated that an ordinary Russian woman spends about a million rubles on cosmetics in her entire life. However, for most men, cosmetics on the face do not cause much enthusiasm. Some people don't like girls wearing makeup at all. Therefore, the technique of "natural" make-up is in particularly high demand. And much more cosmetics are spent on its implementation.
Men love kisses. However, not everyone wants to enjoy lipstick, lip gloss or foundation during a kiss. Therefore, when applying makeup, you need to remember: it can both attract a man and repel him with closer contact.
- Plaid shirts
It turns out that the girl in the plaid shirt — another reason for sudden excitement. And it doesn’t matter what the shirt is worn on: a T-shirt, a naked body or a sundress. Of course, the naked body — arousal bonus. Anyway shirt allows you to create an image of a hooligan who will willingly support bold experiments. However, if you wear plaid shirts all the time, they will become ordinary clothes and will not have the desired effect.
- Musical instruments
If a girl plays a musical instrument, it's already sexy. Moreover, the type of instrument does not matter. It's just that the effect is incredibly hot. And if you can still sing, the delight will be indomitable. Sometimes even just tapping the rhythm on the washboard works.
- Neat rounded tummy
The female figure is such that a small neat tummy — natural part of it. And although advertisers and models are trying to convince the public, you can’t argue with anatomy. Earthly men are happy about this. You don't know how to approach the ideal body. And a luxurious figure with its own features always causes excitement.
- Wrinkles
Girls tend to despair because cobwebs of wrinkles appear around their eyes. For us, wrinkles — the first harbinger of old age. However, men perceive them differently. Naturally, you need to continue to take care of yourself. But you should not be upset because of the "mesh", which partners find extremely sexy, is not worth it.
The roots of arousal go back to maturity. Men see that in front of them is an experienced and mature woman who sexually turns them on. And a small scattering of wrinkles around the eyes and in the nasolabial region indicates that you laugh a lot, rejoice. Whereas a woman tortured by depression does not attract anyone. A man fights with his own problems; at the stage of acquaintance, he does not need other people's problems.
- Small breasts
Not all men dream that their partner has 4 or 6 breast sizes. Most often, not even the size is evaluated, but the beautiful shape and elasticity. And the owners of a small bust can usually boast of these parameters. After all, small breasts are light, keep their shape better, sag less.
- Healthy appetite
For quite a long time, girls have been fond of diets and a healthy lifestyle. The meme that the representatives of the weaker sex eat only salads and wash them down with water is known to everyone. However, this situation does not excite a man. It "smells" self-restraint, painful attitude to food.
Quickly eating a mammoth is not suggested. However, it is sad to chew a cabbage leaf during a date — not the best option. Most men love good food and also appreciate women with the same interests. Therefore, when a girl has a healthy appetite, she is not shy in choosing dishes and alcohol, this confirms her strength and self-confidence. And the tendency to try different dishes and not give up alcohol — a non-verbal signal that there will be experiments in bed.
- Glasses
If at school children with glasses are called "nerds", then in adulthood, glasses become a seductive accessory. A girl with glasses seems more fragile and defenseless, or, conversely, confident and independent. The images may be different. In any case, a man's sexual fantasy begins to work at full capacity.
- Lower voice
Screechy voices are annoying. Low voices have always been considered the sexiest. If there is a slight hoarseness, this is an additional plus. Whisper in such a voice all sorts of differences in your ear — the best recipe for seduction. And if you start swearing, the eardrums of the chosen one will not burst. Perhaps he will even experience aesthetic pleasure listening to your tirades.
- White areas on a tanned body
It turns out that some men are not at all against the fact that white patches remain on the tanned body of the chosen one, because she was lying on the beach in a bathing suit. This makes the girl earthy, not the same as on the cover in glossy magazines. And men especially like this fact. It feels like nudity could be even more explicit.
- Long skirts
With short skirts, everything is simple. It seems that luxurious female legs grow straight from the waist. I would like to touch them as soon as possible. And short skirts favorably emphasize the beauty of rounded buttocks. As for the long models, there is a secret hidden underneath. When mothers and grandmothers in childhood said that it was not necessary to show everything at once — it was true. Sometimes a long, flowy, toe-length skirt makes you look sexier than an ultra-short mini. The fantasy of men is played out in earnest. They imagine your legs hiding so well in the folds of the flying fabric. This effect is obtained even when a loved one has seen you all and more than once.
- Bare feet
Japanese geisha showed their bare wrists if they wanted to please their beloved man. And in our latitudes bare feet, and bare ankles were also considered a sign of nudity. A century ago, a girl could not show her legs at all, so they successfully hid under skirts, sundresses and aprons. When the era of stockings came, bare feet began to be considered a kind of erotica. After all, they meant that there were no stockings on the partner. And this could not leave the man indifferent. And today, bare feet also cause a positive reaction in the opposite sex.
- Sweaty skin
Droplets of sweat that roll down a girl's back or her arms in the heat, — another source of all sorts of male fantasies. And it's not just the visual effect. A large number of pheromones are contained in sweat, so the result is phenomenal.
- Initiative
The times when a shy and bedridden partner was considered attractive are over. Today activity, desire for experiments and courage are welcomed. Sexologists support this trend. A passive girl gets somewhere around 30% of the pleasure that she could experience. And active actions allow you to excite a man faster.
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