Monotony has a bad effect on intimate life, turning it into a routine. And constant stress, chronic fatigue and problems at work easily beat off the desire for intimacy. Therefore, we have collected several ways that will help diversify and keep your sex life on top.
What is it for?
Even bright and passionate sex eventually becomes habitual. We take tried and tested poses, use honed techniques. However, the comfort zone becomes boring and ceases to bring pleasure. People are less likely to make love without showing much enthusiasm. And as a result, weeks and months pass without intimacy. The main risk factor is the fact that partners are silent about their anxieties and dissatisfaction, fantasies and desires. Often this is due to fear or embarrassment. But everything can be fixed.
How to diversify sexual relations with your wife: working ideas
There are many proven ways to help rekindle the flames of past passion and return sex in marriage to its brightness.
- Compliments
Tell your wife that she is damn good and sexy. Show your admiration. Add sensitive tenderness or peppercorns, and if necessary — dirty words. And season all this with compliments, which should come from the heart (do not forget!).
- Kisses
There are never too many kisses. This is far from a teenage prank, but a cool tool for awakening sensuality and sexual desire, if used correctly.
- Initiative
Secrets won't work if you don't take the initiative. It is good if the partners show it alternately. But for this you need to voice your desires, tell the girl that you can switch roles, be creative and experiment in bed.
- Erogenous zones
We have said more than once that there are many erogenous zones, so a long foreplay is useful for hot sex. So you can find new sensual points and get a partner to the maximum.
- Games
Let your imagination fly and engage in role-playing games. If nothing comes to mind, you can order task cards for adults. And it doesn't matter what it will be: strip poker or a visit to the nurse, the main thing is that both of them enjoy it.
- Lubricant
Many couples ignore lubricants for some unknown reason. And in vain! This is an important part of comfortable intimacy. It is better to choose a lubricant in advance, taking into account your preferences in bed.
- Adult films
You can pass the evening watching 18+ movies. And then borrow a couple of tricks or plots for personal use. A great way to diversify bed life and dream up.
- Speed
Speed and enjoyment have no common denominator. Therefore, you need to start slowly, slowly increase the pace. Prelude can be stretched out for quite a long time. Most girls prefer slow and measured sex with a gradual increase in speed.
- Shower
Remember the old — intimacy in the soul. The process can be extremely enjoyable if approached correctly. And if you have a waterproof toy in your assortment, take it with you.
- A day long prelude
Send her a message about how you want to get home as soon as possible and what exactly you plan to do with her. Retire to a secluded place to tell a girl a couple of vulgarities on the phone. And by the time you return home, you will both be on edge.
- Poses
Do not stop at the same position, experiment. Perform oral tests while lying down, on your side, on a washing machine, or even standing up. There are no rules here. You — a director who shoots a burning movie with your proximity.
- Role
You can always switch roles. Focus on personal feelings or satisfy a partner. Use handcuffs, eye tape, bindings. Add something non-trivial to your bed.
How to diversify your sex life with your husband
How can you please a family man? Pretty simple.
- Change location
Go to another apartment, a picnic, or a hotel. Some couples love to indulge in passion public places where there is a risk that someone might see them.
- Change the image
If you don't have children or relatives living with you, you can meet your beloved husband from work dressed as a nurse, maid or teacher. Or choose Eva's outfit. Well, make sure that he goes alone, and not in the company of friends.
- Try new oral techniques
Talk to your partner about what they like and don't like. Try different techniques and then find out what works best. Learn new techniques and practice them often.
- Reverse roles
Let him do whatever he wants with you, and then it's your turn to fulfill his desires.
- Use a ring
All sorts of little helpers in bed are always appropriate. They help to get a bright feeling. Therefore, a ring with vibration must be in your set. It will be nice for both.
- Don't focus on the result
There is no need to ask every 5 minutes whether the final is close, or to invent schemes for its effective achievement. Girls like a man to relax and enjoy joint intimacy, and not be nervous. She will be more turned on when she sees that the partner is really enjoying the process.
- Change motion
If, during passionate intercourse, a man stops making standard back and forth movements, but seems to “scoop”, he will hear more groans and sighs than usual. The road to the peak of bliss will obviously become shorter.
- Add fingers
If you give oral pleasure, do not forget to stimulate the cherished G-spot. Then the girl will not even think about giving up intimacy, because you have become a real pro.
- New missionaries
Missionary — it's a classic. But you can go further. If a girl spreads her legs wider, raises them higher, then the sensations will become more vivid.
- Anal experiments
Prostate — one of the most important erogenous zones in a man's body. Her stimulation will significantly diversify the sensual experiences of the couple. Properly selected toys in tandem with lubricants will make the process painless and enjoyable.
- Stronger, higher, stronger
All the secrets of intimacy rest at one moment — hard penis. Kegel exercises will help in strengthening male positions. Repeating them 20-30 minutes a day, you can achieve some progress in a couple of months. And erotic massage helps to achieve the goal, in particular, stimulation of the lingam.
How to diversify bed life with a guy
There are many effective options. Choose what suits you.
- Take the Kama Sutra
Stay in the same position during intimacy — not the best solution. Some part of the body will definitely numb. Try something new and different, like the poses from the legendary Kama Sutra. You will be surprised, but they can really be repeated.
- Go for an eromassage together
There is nothing more piquant than watching the pleasure of your partner, who or who is caressed by hot girls. And then everything happens in reverse. As a bonus, you will get incredible relaxation, removal of clamps, healing of the whole body and release of hormones of joy.
- Intimacy in front of a mirror
You can have sex in front of a mirror. But you just need to discard thoughts about the imaginary shortcomings of your body, be it folds, scars, excess weight. The ideal figure in nature is rare. And the partner has already studied your body in detail, so you should not be shy.
- Please each other more often
It doesn't matter where you are. You can always take a few minutes to use your hands, tongue, and mouth for shared pleasure. Change speed and techniques to make the effect fantastic.
- Take a love break
Agree that you won't touch each other for one or more days. You can stretch the anticipation time for a whole week. Believe me, when the term is over, sex will become especially passionate. After all, the forbidden fruit is sweet!
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