The main difficulty faced by a beginner is embarrassment. In fact, you are in a room with a completely unfamiliar girl, in front of whom you have to undress and talk about your feelings. Not every person can easily and easily cope with such a task. Therefore, the goal of a masseuse is to build a trusting relationship in a few minutes. To make it a little easier for you, we will give you a couple of tips on how to overcome shyness.
What to do to get rid of embarrassment
Experienced psychologists advise you to do the following.
- Don't ignore shyness
Constraint is an important signal that our own or someone else's borders may be violated. There is no need to abandon it at all. However, you cannot allow the feeling to take hold of you. To do this, try to concentrate on the feelings that you experience along with the shyness. For example, interest, desire, craving for something new.
- Think about the result
Let go of the thought that you are shy. Think about what you will get if you take this step. And even if the result is not exactly what you expected, the victory over yourself will remain in your pocket. Focus on what pleasant feelings, vivid experiences await you in the company of a beautiful naked girl.
- Rely on your own experience of self-confidence
Imagine those people or that sphere of life in which you feel confident. Try to remember exactly how you feel when you are in your environment. Transfer these feelings to a new situation. And also try to make a list of your positive qualities that will help you overcome shyness. Think about what an excellent specialist you are, a good friend, a gallant cavalier, a strong man, and so on.
- Remember that everyone is busy with themselves
If you are worried that all the masseuse's thoughts are occupied with how you look and how attractive you are, then you are very wrong. Usually a person thinks about himself and his own worries, desires.
- Get out of your comfort zone more often
This has a positive effect on self-esteem, as well as the diversity of life. You can sign up for a sports section or for drawing courses. Master classes on improvisation help well. You will learn to relax and stop being shy.
- Use relaxation techniques
You can manage your anxiety. Even if in case of embarrassment you start to stutter, blush violently or forget words. However, one desire, an effort of will will not get off here. It is necessary to resort to special practices. For example, a variety of breathing exercises help to relax quickly, for example, inhaling and exhaling at the expense.
- Admit your embarrassment to the masseuse
The first step to creating a trusting atmosphere is to admit that you are worried. The girl will support you and help you start an unobtrusive conversation, during which you will stop being nervous.
How is the massage in the salons "EGOIST"
It is important for a beginner to know what will happen during the massage. This helps to prepare and relax faster. After all, the unknown scares a person the most.
A short description of the steps of the procedure:
- First you need to choose a program, a girl, a massage parlor. All this can be done on our website. Photos of masseuses are real, only slightly retouched. You can be sure that you will meet exactly the girls you saw in the pictures outside the salon. A responsive administrator will listen to your wishes and help you choose a program.
- At the designated time, you come to the salon, where each guest is greeted by a friendly receptionist and escorted to the room. A beautiful girl is already waiting for you here.
- With slow and careful movements, the girl will help you undress, and then erotically exposes herself to give maximum pleasure. To relieve excess tension and overcome embarrassment, you will go to the shower together. It will take some time to get used to the gentle touches of a charming stranger.
- When you get out of the shower, all parts of the body will be relaxed, and there will be no trace of shyness. You will be possessed only by sweet excitement and enticing languor. After all, there is a completely naked beauty opposite, who delivers incredible pleasure with her gentle touches. And when it comes to sensual practices, the brightest ending is inevitable!
Tips for those who have never been to an eromassage
For beginners who come for a massage, we always advise:
- Be frank. If you are scared or shy, be sure to tell our girl about it. She will do everything possible to make the session as comfortable as possible.
- Share your feelings. Tell me which places are most sensitive to you and how best to influence them.
- Realize your fantasies. But first, discuss your desires with the administrator, who will tell you which program to choose: with BDSM techniques, peep shows, certain scenarios.
- Be respectful and follow the rules. Erotic massage has nothing to do with an intimate relationship. If a guest inclines a girl to an intimate relationship, the salon administration may ask him to leave and not return the funds deposited.
Come to our salons to overcome fear and shyness, get out of your comfort zone and get a new source of pleasure. After all, there are not so many ways in life to give yourself pleasure with benefit. All salons are open 24/7, and loyalty programs are offered to regular guests so that you can enjoy pleasant sensations for longer and for a lower fee.
