Sexual attraction can be caused by various objects: from lacy lingerie to spanking. If the nature of your preferences is related to some objects or situations that are safe for another person, you should not be shy about it. Be sure to share this with your partner or at least with the masseuse of the eromassage salon.
What is a fetish
Fetish today — it is any sexual addiction that a person experiences. For example, men are speechless at the sight of women's stockings, bare feet, stilettos. Often objects that are not sexual in themselves cause attraction.
Fetishism can manifest itself in different ways and with varying degrees of intensity. Addiction only causes problems when attraction and sex are impossible without the use of an object of desire. In all other cases, such an addiction can be perceived as a sharp zest in your foreplay and intimacy.
Erotic fetishes are different
Let's look at the most common options that are found today.
- Stilettos
Most men love to look at women walking seductively in stilettos. Foot fetishists simply melt at the sight of women's legs, and fans of BDSM aesthetics are ready to literally lie under the heel. Interestingly, Marilyn Monroe landed her first role thanks to a little hairpin trick. One heel was filed, so her signature seductive walk appeared.
- Leather, latex and a focus on BDSM
You don't have to be a BDSM addict to admire the beauty of a female body wrapped in shiny latex. The image of a catwoman drove crazy more than one generation of men. Aggressive Amazon does not leave anyone indifferent.
- Lips, red lipstick
Plump female lips make you think about kisses and oral caresses. Therefore, a woman with a beautiful mouth will definitely be in the spotlight. Sexologists also claim that men subconsciously associate tender lips with the genitals.
- Hair
A fetish that is hundreds of years old. Blondes, brunettes, redheads, long-haired or cut like a boy — Men love to touch women's hair. And many are excited by the aroma that the hair can store for a very long time.
- Linen
An easily explainable weakness that needs no explanation. However, not all men are excited by new underwear. Some people like to touch things that have retained the smell of their owner. Others love to try it on.
- Nails
An item that is difficult to explain in terms of psychology, but easy to use. Luxurious manicure catches the eye and attracts the attention of even men.
- Miniskirt
Even if fashion gurus ban short skirts, they will remain a favorite among men. This piece of clothing allows girls to show off their luxurious legs and beautiful butts.
- Spanking
Some people like to be spanked. The buttocks and the back of the thigh are a known erogenous zone. And if you spank them with enough force, it provokes the strongest excitement. It should be borne in mind that spanking is usually associated with memories from childhood when the child was punished. Therefore, in some people, a feeling of humiliation and submission becomes an excitation factor. A partner can demonstrate dominance and complete control. However, it is worth discussing the stop word and the boundaries of what is permitted beforehand.
- Foot fetishism
This is the most common fetish that does not involve the genitals. Even those who do not have the appropriate affection feel the pleasure of kissing, sucking on their partner's toes.
- Urolagnia
Sometimes pleasure is associated with urine: its feel and smell. The person likes to be looked at while on the toilet, or likes to watch someone urinate. Some feel excited when they become a living "urinal". Such an act is known to the general public under the name "golden shower".
- Voyeurism
This is the name of the process of getting aroused when a person watches sexual intercourse from the side. You should not hide: almost everyone watched porn or erotica. However, in its crudest forms, fetish involves the covert observation of a person who is undressing, dressing or taking a bath.
- Sex in public
Exhibitionism is about getting incredible pleasure from sexual contact in crowded places. The trigger is the risk of being caught on the spot. That is why it carries a lot of fantastic emotions.
- Group proximity
Threesome — a natural desire from the point of view of biology, which is easily explained by the desire of a man to leave a large number of descendants after himself. If there are more participants, the process is called an orgy.
- Orgasm control
It is part of the BDSM practice. Usually the process looks like this: the subordinate partner is brought to a climax, but the process is suspended at the most interesting. And this happens many times. The idea is to let the other person decide for you when and how to achieve ejaculation.
To have a fetish — is this normal?
Each person has his own characteristics both in ordinary and intimate life. Therefore, to enjoy certain things or situations — completely normal. The main thing is that everything is done by agreement and does not harm other people.
You can practice any fetishes in your intimate life if you do it with an adult. At the same time, no one's health suffers, laws are not violated.
What to do if your partner doesn't want to support your fetish
Situations often occur when a partner finds out about a fetish and considers it something bad or dirty. What to do in this case?
This is a complex question that cannot be easily answered. Sexologists recommend talking frankly with your partner, learning about the reasons that cause a negative reaction. Perhaps the fetish simply does not arouse interest in a person. In this case, you can agree that you will use your fetishes and fantasies during masturbation or come to realize some fantasies in eromassage salons.
The fact that your partner does not share your fantasies is not a reason to break up. It is always possible and necessary to look for a compromise solution. But this is possible if both partners are determined to solve the problem.
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